Adopted = Wanted and Chosen
(I speak as an adopted child, not an adoptive parent so if my suppositions are not accurate I apologize.) There are no unplanned adoptions. There are children from unplanned pregnancies, or pregnancies that were more or less intentional and then, those children who've resulted from a very intentional desire to have a child. Adoption can be like the choice to get pregnant; there is this desire for a child and action towards that end and then the uncertainty of how things are developing. A pregnancy however is usually a set amount of time, a certain procedure whereas an adoption hasn’t this set time frame and involves from start to finish many deliberate actions The one thing though that all pregnancies have in common and that is that pretty much when your child is born – you have a child. Period. There are no “call backs”, no return policy, no Plan B. You are now a parent and have both the privilege and responsibility of taking care of this person. My mom had told me about when I ca...